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Customer Trust Is the Currency of CX — Why Broken Promises Leave Scars

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One broken promise can wipe out years of goodwill. Here’s how to protect customer trust and loyalty.

The Gist

  • Trust is fragile. A single broken promise can erase years of goodwill with customers.
  • Emotional impact. When brands fail to deliver, it feels personal, not just transactional.
  • Common pitfalls. Overpromising, vague language, and reactive communication damage credibility.
  • Trust as currency. Customer loyalty depends on consistently keeping commitments and building confidence.

Last year, I shared with CMSWire readers about my trip to Old Mission Peninsula, a stretch of land in northern Michigan that has transformed over time from cherry orchards into a region known for its vineyards. It was one of those perfect experiences: stunning views, wonderful wine and a cozy cottage that felt like it would become “our place” for years to come.

As part of our arrangement, we were told we’d have access to that cottage for a certain number of weeks each year. It felt like more than a reservation — it felt like a promise. So, naturally, we planned to return this fall, even inviting others to join us and share what had been such a wonderful discovery.

But then came the disappointing news: the cottage wouldn’t be available to us after all. The contract was clear, our expectations were set, and yet, in the end, the promise wasn’t kept. On the surface, it might look like a minor inconvenience — “find somewhere else to stay.”

But emotionally, it landed much deeper. It wasn’t just about the cottage. It was about trust.

This small personal experience mirrors what so many customers feel when brands overpromise and underdeliver. Trust is the currency of customer experience. Every positive interaction is like a deposit into that account. Over time, those deposits accumulate into customer loyalty.

But here’s the hard truth: one broken promise can wipe out years of goodwill. Customers don’t measure their relationship with your brand by the last great experience they had; they measure it by the last time you kept (or broke) your word.

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The Ripple Effect of Broken Promises on Customer Experience

When a brand doesn’t deliver on what it says, the impact is rarely about the specific transaction.

It creates uncertainty. If it happened once, what’s to stop it from happening again?

It feels personal. A promise connects directly to the customer’s plans, hopes or trust. When it breaks, it feels like they were let down, not just their wallet.

It erodes confidence. Customers stop believing marketing messages, stop relying on timelines and ultimately stop giving the benefit of the doubt.

The result? A customer who once might have been an enthusiastic advocate becomes a skeptical buyer — or worse, an ex-customer.

Organizations rarely set out to disappoint, but common pitfalls lead them there:

  • Overcommitting by making guarantees about timelines, inventory or service levels that can’t be upheld consistently.
  • Vague language by using fine print or ambiguous promises that set expectations higher than reality.
  • Reactive communication by waiting until after the customer discovers a problem to explain what went wrong.

In each case, the brand assumes customers will forgive and forget. But what customers actually remember is the sting of the letdown.

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How to Protect and Strengthen Customer Trust

So, how can brands safeguard trust in a world where broken promises carry such weight? 

The Bigger Picture on Customer Trust

Back on Old Mission Peninsula, we’re left wondering: do we try again next year, hoping the promise holds, or do we look elsewhere? The decision isn’t about cottages or vineyards; it’s about whether we believe the promise will be kept.

Customers make the same calculation every day. They don’t just ask, “Did I get what I paid for?” They ask, “Can I trust this company to keep its word?”

Trust, once lost, isn’t easily regained. And in the world of customer experience, it’s not just another line item. It’s the very currency that sustains relationships.

Our Take on Customer Trust

Editor's note: Here's what we've been covering on CMSWire over the past year on customer trust.

Building Customer Trust: A Strategic Guide for CX Leaders

Customer trust forms the foundation of loyalty and long-term business growth, but building it requires sustained effort rather than one-time initiatives. CX leaders should prioritize transparent communication, proactive service and consistent delivery across every customer touchpoint.

Core Trust-Building Elements

According to CX experts, authenticity, timeliness and reliability serve as the cornerstones that meet rising customer expectations and foster genuine trust. These elements must be woven into every customer interaction to create lasting relationships.

Leadership Alignment & Cultural Integration

Leadership must model customer-centricity at every organizational level. CX should be embedded in company culture, not just owned by a single department. Senior leaders need to tie CX to business outcomes, reward behaviors that improve customer value and make CX metrics part of regular performance reviews.

Learning Opportunities

This alignment ensures that trust-building becomes everyone's responsibility, not just the front line's.

Personalization & Human Connection

Tailored offers, attentive staff and real-time engagement show customers they're more than just a transaction. Technology should enhance—not replace—human connection. Sentiment analysis and secure digital tools can help, but the real differentiator is a team empowered to act with both data and heart.

The Power of Storytelling

CX leaders shouldn't overlook storytelling's impact. Sharing real-world success stories and testimonials demonstrates your brand's impact and builds emotional resonance. Consistency, patience and meaningful engagement—rather than quick wins—are what turn trust into loyalty.

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About the Author
Colleen Lonsberry

With over 20 years of experience, Colleen Lonsberry has built a career transforming B2B technology companies—whether manufacturers, distributors, or SaaS providers — into market leaders. As a strategic visionary, Colleen is known for bridging the gap between hard work and smart strategy, consistently architecting marketing teams, roles, and groundbreaking initiatives that drive business success. Connect with Colleen Lonsberry:

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